IVF, Loss & the Invisible Scars of Motherhood: Lisa's Story of Love, Longing & Light

🛑 Trigger Warning
This episode includes sensitive content relating to infertility, IVF, medical trauma, child illness, and stillbirth. Please take care as you listen. Support resources are listed at the end of the show notes.

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In this deeply moving and courageous episode, Sammy sits down with Lisa, a mother whose journey through parenthood has been marked by unimaginable loss, raw resilience, and unshakable love. Originally from Northern Ireland and now raising her family in Australia, Lisa opens up about her path to motherhood — from the excitement of early pregnancy to the heartbreak of miscarriage, the emotional toll of IVF, the near loss of her firstborn, and the shattering grief of stillbirth.

Lisa shares what it's like to face decisions no parent should ever have to make, how trauma shaped her relationship with herself and her body, and the complex layers of navigating anxiety, guilt, and love in the aftermath of loss. She also brings to light the silent battles many women face when trying to become mothers — and what helped her begin to heal.

This is a story of vulnerability and bravery, of what it means to grieve while mothering, and of finding strength even when the path feels impossibly dark. Whether you’re walking a similar road, or holding space for someone who is, this conversation is a reminder that you are not alone.

🕊️ Lisa’s story is shared with immense courage and care. Please listen gently.

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💛 If this episode brought up anything for you, please know that support is available.
You don’t have to carry your grief, trauma or questions alone.

📍Support Services:

• The Still Space – Trauma, grief and anxiety-informed counselling: www.thestillspace.com.au

• Bears of Hope Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support – www.bearsofhope.org.au

• Lifeline – 24/7 crisis support: 13 11 14

• Griefline – Support for anyone experiencing grief: 1300 845 745

With love,
Sammy x